Her Ex keeps procrastinating signing the divorce papers because he on his “MitchNess” again! My lady and her 1st husband have been separated for damn near  years. Recently, my lady mailed a Complaint for Divorce to Mitch to have notarized and signed, so that they can finally be legally divorced. There are no assets to divide, accounts to dissolve, nor property to relinquish. But this man continues to drag his a$$ when it comes to this one simple task. He is a notorious bulls#%ter when it comes to being responsible for conducting business.Mitch “so” called forgot the final court date to the custody hearing, but remembered he wasn’t the biological father when it came to child support! He refuses to be responsible by telling the “truth” to the daughter (he saids he loves) about his foolish lack of integrity in court; which resulted in my lady being awarded full legal custody. My lady hadn’t spoken to Mitch in almost a year following the emotional custody case. As far as I’m concerned Mitch has been the single most (idiotic) impediment to blending our fam. Don’t get it twisted, I love being a PreNup Pops, but my plan has always been to marry my lady!
My G, let me help you with something, and listen good! Don’t get involved with any woman is unwilling to resolve her legalities that you require to be in a relationship. I understand that things happen that prohibit us from handling legal business. Taking care of legal issues is expensive. But bruh, if she values what you bring to the table, and believes (y’all) have a promising future together, she will do whatever she needs to make it happen. We let women off the hook to easy! Make them work just as hard as they work us! Trust me, if there was some legal issue in your history (from some chic), that prohibited y’all from being together, she would be on your s#%t daily. Bruh, value your time invested in the relationship, and make it very clear what are all of your expectations. You deserve to be protected from her irresponsible behavior. You can’t honestly blend, what you can’t legally claim!
I believe cohabitational relationships are just as loving, valued, beautiful, and “honorable” as traditional relationship. But it does not mean that “wingin” it when it comes to legal matters is acceptable. Just because you haven’t taken them nuptials doesn’t mean you have the right to jeopardize someone’s future because of s#%t that should have been previously taken care off. My G, don’t afraid to get the 411 on your lady’s history. Sometimes as men we do a poor job at getting them receipts and facts. Everyone deserves to be secure in the relationship (including men)!Blending a cohabitational family can be a legally complex issue. Never forfeit your investment of time, energy, and finances because you were unwilling to hold your lady accountable.
As much as I love being a PreNup Pops, I love the freedom to live on my own terms more. I have sacrificed almost  decades to be able to finally live in a manner that affords me the opportunity to freely pursue my life. Blending a family is rewarding, but it also is hard work. I don’t want to see my hard work be diminished, and minimized because of some legal technicality. My G, your role as a PreNup Pops should be protected and embraced my your lady. Cause trust me, there is a Mitch lurking in everybody’s history ready to sabotage your s#%t!
What's good fam!!! I'm a divorced father of (8), and currently engaged to the most beautiful joint I've every seen! Let me break it down (6) kids are my bio-seedlings, and the other (2) sweet-hearts belong my soon-to-be wife! I'm an entrepreneur (hustler), and author. Fatherhood is my calling and passion. This blog is for My G's that hold it down for their "blended" fam, but haven't taking them nuptials. I'm all about empowering fathers and building strong families!